Skip to main content

Getting By with a Little Help



It's that time again... you guessed it... time for a FIVE! This week has been particularly stressful. I find it funny that in the midst of our chaos, little treasures are buried there to get us through. In lieu of that epiphany... you are getting a fresh Five this week. Straight from my musings. I hope you're finding ways to see the beauty in your storm, and that you are evaluating what kind of legacy you are prioritizing.

1. Glorious sunshine. I know... it's Texas and it's hotter than a two dollar pistol... insert obligatory thanksgiving to the inventor of the air conditioner here... but it IS glorious. When you first walk outside after being cooped up in an office or your house (or your house office) all day, and you step into the sunshine and your muscles just immediately melt. It's like your body was dying inside and you just revived it. In Texas, you are also met with a wall of suffocating humidity, but it's worth battling through for that little warming of your soul.
2. Wisdom in its many forms. I got to spend some time with the girls in our church youth group during their lock-in Wednesday night. Admittedly, staying up until midnight on a week night almost killed me... but I prevailed a victor! There was a Q&A time and the wisdom that was in the room slayed me. These girls are living lives... LIVES. I sat there answering when I could and listening when I couldn't, astounded. Every person, young and old is traveling a path different than yours and has something to teach you.
3. Oatmeal Raisin Cliff Bars... they are life. If you haven't... you should. Right MEOW. I mean... organic oats and walnuts... forget about it.
4. Baseball. Can we just give a little glory hallelujah for this sport?! There is something uniquely cultural about the game. The green grass, the patience, the batter-pitcher stare down... it's outstanding. I get to be an Astros' fan, (and yes... long before the World Series win and subsequent bandwagoning) a FAN... a 2011 fan... all 56 wins and 106 losses worth of fandom, and this team has something. There's a jovial quality to the game they play. The hugs, the way they take in new guys to their family, and especially on those nights when we get to see them play a little small ball and are transported to a cul-de-sac in a neighborhood in small town USA.
5. Checkout lines. The other day, I was waiting in a checkout. It was a big box store... so naturally there were 57 total registers and only 2 were open. I had the finest chat with an elderly lady and her grandson. It was perfection. We must've been there ten minutes together and that line was no different than tea on the porch. Get out there and turn your impatience into an experience. Make someone laugh. The more you worry about someone else's comfort, the less you worry about your inconvenience.

All the hearts. SP

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Attitude of Gratitude

I have struggled with the need to write this post and open a chapter publicly, if you will, for some time. I guess the best place to start is an explanation. I'm a list maker. Somewhere around 5 years ago, in addition to my daily agenda, I began writing a gratitude list. The list began as a running tally of items and I'd add to it when something made itself focal to me in that way, but over time, I needed to streamline the process and it became what I lovingly call my "Friday Five." Each Friday, I take a few minutes to jot down 5 things that I have been noticeably grateful for that week. Some are trivial, some deep. Somewhere in there, I started offering them to a pal that struggled (much like me) with stopping to experience the small things along his life journey. Soon the "Fives" became a beautiful tangle of words that allowed us to really see joy in the simple. We sent them reciprocally via email for more than two years. Sadly and in the most heart sh...

Live Your Legacy

This week, we are back on track with reposting some of my favorite fives. It was curious how these lined up with my heart this week in real time. I have reached a place in life where what I leave is equally as important as my day-to-day. Am I being kind? Am I vocalizing things I've learned to people struggling with similar situations? Am I weaving myself into other's stories in the best ways? I think a monumental part of maturity is caring less about how happy you are and more about the happiness of others. 1. I'm thankful that each day, the sun chooses to share itself with me just as I drive the overpass of 99 to 290. It warms my face and reminds me to breathe. Some days, I breathe so deeply that I see stars and I genuinely feel like I've been given a fresh start in that moment. 2. I'm excited that my brain seems a little clearer this week, while my tummy seems foggier. 3. Words. Most weeks I read and read and nothing speaks to me, but this week, passages seem...